Hmmm how can I explain this? Oh gosh, iunno know how to start.Okay let's try this... you have a friend for almost 3 years in SL, you've been nice (cause that's how you are), never tried to screw them over, been there every time they've IM'd you, helped out in anyway you could, been completely honest (a blissful mutual yay-ship), and then...
BOOM!
They go mentally insane, jump back into the same re'ship that has on numerous occasions been a disaster and act as if you are the total bad-guy in this entire scenario.
What did I miss?
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You know, I was "that girl" and went back to get my ass kicked three times by the same bad person. Sometimes, it takes getting your ass kicked that one last time before you get it and then your friends aren't the enemies anymore.
If you missed something, I must have missed it too. Because I have people that do that as well. And it's just one of those things that you have a difficult time not saying, "I told you so".
Here are some reasons people go back, taken from my own experience
-- Insecurity about being alone
-- Loyalty
-- Wanting to help him get better
-- Fear that he will commit suicide (like he threatens to all.the.time)
-- He is charming and loving when he is not being a dickhead.
-- Guilt. He reminds you all the time the problems are your fault
-- Most important though is you remember what he used to be like and you want things to be that sweet again.
Don't believe the lies jelly. hugs.
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