Jelly has been on me to lay out a guide to wooage for the blog. Well I decided to try to come up with 101 Ways to Woo. I had some awesome help towards the end from Dreamer and Jelly to make sure I hit my goal... Hope this helps, feel free to comment with others... the beauty of it is that it is something that is unlimited in scope.
1. Dancing at Avilion
2. Pay attention - notice when she changes her outfit, hair, shoes, skin, etc
3. Be honest above and beyond all else
4. Movie night
5. Rooftops - nuff said
6. Be random
8. Riding the rides at Prim Hearts amusement park
9. Compliments - new dress, new hair, new shoes...
10. Leaving flowers where she logs on
11. Take notes on the profile - little things like Birthdays, Favorite flower, favorite music... you never know when they will come in handy
12. Stream favorite music
13. Request favorite music at a club/event
14. Hire a DJ for your special time - every third person in SL is a DJ
15. Comment on her snaps/pics
16. You can never say I love you enough
17. Listen to what she says
18. Use the midnight setting - A LOT
19. Combine 18 with some hot local lighting options - ie candles/torches/etc
20. Role play to keep it fun
21. Spend time with her friends, make an effort to know them
22. Put in some effort - effort wins over skill, you just hafta show you care
23. Buy a couples animator - a quick hug/kiss can go a long way
24. Explore together, new sims equal new opportunities
25. Take time to just spend together and block the rest of the world out it shows you value each other's time
26. Try out every pose ball you find - note though that pose balls assist and do not replace wooage
27. Go to Bits and Bobs and pose ball shop together
28. Go to Sexy Jesse's and shop for pose balls together
29. Search the event listings and find new things you haven't tried
30. Go to the art museums/exhibits and discuss what each of you like
31. A balloon ride over a scenic sim
32. Jazz dancing
33. Plan a weekend getaway for just the two of you... search the classifieds for rental options
34. Custom tat's with your love's name
35. Send random offlines so she gets them when she logs on in the morning
36. PILLOW TALK PILLOWS.... EVERYWHERE
37. Be descriptive - the more descriptive you are, the more of a connection that can be made when you are talking about the other
38. Write poems - again effort over quality will win out in the end
39. Email love songs that remind you of the other
40. Pick a song for the two of you, that you can then request EVERYWHERE
41. If you are in an area where you can build, then you can drop a cuddle rug and fireplace and instant atmosphere
42. Take her ice skating
43. Take her roller skating
44. Alternate going to your favorites, trade off.... showing your favorite hot spots
45. Buy her a gift - it is the applicability to what she likes that means more than the price of it
46. Not building the list with Jelly on the line, so she can get bent if you haven't done one yet
47. Remember the important dates!
48. Agree to what these dates are so you are working from the same calendar - especially the date you became "official"
49. Celebrate small things as much as the big ones
50. Don't tease - u hafta be careful cuz it can turn mean too easily
51. Pacing yourself so as to not lay out entire bag of tricks at once
52. Laugh together A LOT
53. Laugh at yourself the most
54. Apollo gardens
55. Sinistyle custom dog tags with your names
56. Take lots of pics to remember your memories
57. Be true to yourself and don't be something you aren't, cuz the truth will eventually come out
58. Keep a lil time for yourself as well to keep things fresh
59. Go to the zoo
60. Write a blog together... ;)
61. Live music events together - whether good/bad/or ugly they will give you things to talk about
62. PDA (public displays of affection) rocketh
63. Don't beat each other up over exes or past mistakes, focus on the now and the future, and what you each learned from your past
64. Buy a hammock with cuddling positions
65. Go to Parrot Island and enjoy the jet skis and swimming
66. Play games together - Tringo being a fav...
67. Incorporate skype or voice into your convo's - this makes it easier to facilitate multitasking and adds a more emotional component to it
68. Find as many places to have secks as possible (Tringo, Blogger meetings, pirate ships, etc etc)
69. ummm what else can you put on 69 - other than mutual satisfaction
70. Take turns treating the other to whatever it is that they like the most.
71. Watch Heroes together so you can talk about it - even if you hafta wait til the next day due to time zones
72. Let her know you are thinking of her if you aren't together
73. Take ten minutes and set aside and each list what you love about the other
74. All relationships are based on trust so that has to be first and foremost
75. Talk about things, so don't make assumptions if you think something negative
76. Don't be afraid to step outside your comfort zone and try new things
77. Provide encouragement to her in whatever she tries to do
78. Don't ever come across as hafta, but always as wanna with her
79. Read a book together that you can discuss
80. Offer up a footrub/massage and be sure to describe in detail what you are doing
81. Don't use canned quotes/lines to express yourself, actually express YOURSELF
82. Don't try to change her ears... accept who she is
83. Don't expect to get secks, but be grateful when you get it...
84. Use your own words, relying on the excite wording is just lame
85. Treat her with respect
86. Don't do anything you wouldn't be comfortable doing in RL - unless you are both comfy with it
87. FOREPLAY
88. Be there with her now.... don't split time in a bunch of IM's or playing other games
89. Kiss until you can't live without anymore oxygen
90. Slow dance V3 at least once a day
91. Couple inner tube ride through Dragon Moon
92. Pick up her lingo, because women love a cunning linguist.
93. Be original - you can't duplicate everything from your past exes or it WILL come back to bite you
94. Be loyal but not blind or stupid
95. Communicate, communicate, communicate
96. Buy some penguins or other favorite cute pets
97. Don't take short cuts or rush it along, take your time and enjoy your moments together
98. Long leisurely conversations without timetables
99. Take lots of time to cuddle on the other side
100. Spend time thinking back over the pivotal events that brought you together and revisit those memories once a year
101. Open up and share yourself, cuz that will draw you in closer.
Whew, that should get you through a good week at least... gluck with that! :)
13 comments:
did we forget ..
#102 .. be creative!
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Okay, Hawks, I don't know whether to kiss you or drag you down a dark alley and shoot you. On the one hand, this is a brilliant and helpful guide which many will find useful and get good mileage from. On the other...
if Myg asks me to come up with another 101 without repeating any of yours, you're dead.
Great and excellent post!! All guys (and girls) should read it!
LMAO Alex... Well you know how these things work. Jelly had a few friends that mentioned how they never get any wooage, so she thought we would be providing a public service to the community at large if we offered up some suggestions... I have nothing but the utmost faith that you can come up with the next 101. I will let Myg know how much I support that endeavor, and will look forward to seeing it next week. :)
um wow. *whistles and hopes someone with blue hair sees this* lol. Great job!
1. Um... Bring home some of that new cake batter ice cream in RL and then take her out in SL so she can eat it in both worlds at the same time.
2. Uh, slip some extra L$ into her account with a list of the latest hair releases at her favorite shops
3. Dang, this is a lot of work. Um, ... Agree with everything she says. Ok, ok...
4. ...
*begins laying out arsenal* "Hmmm... the PPK with the silencer? Or maybe just the 1911 auto?"
ROFL, you are doing it man, just keep em coming. Once you get the momentum rolling, they will keep on trucking up to about number 78, then you hafta work a bit at the last 23, but I have faith... You can do it!
Thanks Ana and Gillian... :)
OMG, JellyBean, where did you find this guy? :-)
You guys are so lucky!
What an extensive list, I can't believe I read the whole thing. I love this post. Hopefully it will serve as a guide for others.
*licks the tip of his nose*
I found him at tringo! :D It's better than your local grocery store. :p
I should say that I read your blog daily, but I rarely comment. I find it warm and charming and cute as hell.
But this post is one of the most useful things I have see in a long time.
Well, that answers that.
Jelly sure is one high maintenance gal. ;-)
Ha! I kid. I am sure she only requires the first 25 items on a daily basis. *g*
But seriously, Hawks, thanks for making the rest of us guys look like the slackers we are. If you think this promotes you to the head of the Wrath Paine Mantourage Services® you are sorely mistaken. In fact, you just set back the whole male movement like by three years or something.;-)
Anyway, it was a pretty damn good list, I hate to have to admit. Although, let's be honest here and not try to fool anyone. This article was originally submitted as "100 Ways to Woo" until JellyBean went to post it for you and got all editing crazy and added that extra sneaky one, by inserting it into #87. And I have proof - not just because I've never heard a guy say that - but see for yourself, the capitilization doesn't even match, sheesh! hehe
Casius/Wilhelmina... wow, thanks, those are very nice things to say... :)
Wrath... To be totally honest with you, yes that was a Jelly addition, but it was thrown out in general chat. I do type and post my own posts... lmao. I disagree with you though on the lack of interest in foreplay with guys. I actually am a HUGE proponent of foreplay. I am all for variety, so there are times when yeah I wanna slam up against a wall and knock it out in minutes.. but there are other times when I want to spend a couple of hours before anything comes off, and then take it slow, sort of savoring every tingle... I think that if guys took the time to try it, they would like it. Again, not every time, but it is a great way to mix it up, and not something to be overlooked. :)
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